May,Meet december

Written
2010

 May, Meet December 

I head the tsks, tsks

as I walked down the street.

Neither gender nor age is requisite

         for the near hisses of shame.

Such moral outrage

       not seen here since

       the minister ran off

with the choirmaster’s beautiful wife.

That was clearly wrong

         even though the minister’s

wife was a shrew

and the choirmaster abusive.

They deserved your wrath.

But I have not earned this grief.

When I introduced May to December,

       all of you had nasty things to say

 about me

 and about them.

The idea that the introduction

 was a perverted sense of humor stung.

Making me an accessory to

       cradle-robbing rubbed salt into a new wound.

That I might share

an in early inheritance

was also a body blow.

Believe me I am not a villain

and blight on this fair community.

For together, May and December

can avoid some of life’s great dangers.

When May looks at December,

the gloomy future of aging is revealed;

 no vision of great reward.

When December looks at May

all those memories of

the strife and frustration

of youth are etched in stone.

So May and December have to protect

 each other from the ghosts of the past

and future phantoms.

The past and the future are

       forever long

and life is all too short

to be bogged down in

those temporal Infernos.

May and December

have the great opportunity

to live in the lively present.

The present is all that belongs

to us to control.

Until we can draw curtain

on the past and future,

one way we can live in contentment 

is be more like May and December.

 

Doug Minnis

February 7,2010

 

      

 

 

 

Notes
I did in fact have this happen. Long lasting marriage. Widow has had a good life since her husband died at a ripe old age. Widow has developed many hobbies