Toby Mug Friends

 Toby Mug Friends

 

Five decades ago

         when we stood in the chancellor's back yard

         we were strangers all.

The U C Davis was growing

         and growing fast

         and we were the shock troops.

We saw and recognized each other

         over the years.

We danced at the Christmas

         Goose Stew.

We drank good wine together

         at the fall wine-tasting.

We dressed as hicks

         for the annual Steak Bake

         and ate more than we should.

Big steaks, beans

         and corn on the cob

         slathered in butter.

This gourmand feast

         washed down with

         multiple bottles of regional zin.

We proved our proletarian roots

         by the demolition of the

         old redwood chem building.

And once a year we became

         true Aggies on the Work Day

         where we cleared weeds and mended fences.

We served together on faculty committees

         over the years.

We watched the Aggies win over and over

         from our annually reserved seats.

We retired on VERIP together.

We had become

         more-than-nodding colleagues.

Yet we were mostly still strangers all.

Then we started to attend funerals

         of our colleagues.

First the faculty pictured in the 1949 El Rodeo;

         then some of our backyard crew of five decades ago.

And each time we turned over

          a Toby Mug on the virtual mantel,

          our friendship grew.

Now chance meetings

         at the Nugget Market

         become an occasion for celebration.

We are still here and glad

         others are also.

Subscriptions to the Enterprise

         are mainly for the obit column

         to see what dear friend gives us reason

         to turn one more Toby Mug.

It is not ours yet, old friend.

But I hope to win

         the bottle of very old brandy

         and toast the turning of your mug.