The Human Puzzle

Written
2010

 The Human Puzzle

 

When spring turns to summer

       and the roses quit their early bloom,

       it is alumni-making time.

All over town students

       enroute to becoming alumni.

Spread through the community

       are older alumni

       coming to celebrate

       the anniversary of their becoming alumni.

They head to the hotel meeting-room

       guarded by the name tag table

       with undergraduate hosts who

       help with pinning.

Soon screams of delight

       come from the recognition

       after 35 years of separation.

Hugs and simultaneous

       questions and answers.

Everyone talking at once.

Glances at nametags

       to be sure this really is

       the best friend from years ago.

Excitement fills the room as

       each new arrival is greeted.

Do you remember the day that…?

Were you there when…?

How lucky you are not to have aged.

What ever happened to…?

You sure are looking good.

Remember Mr. Wilson falling asleep

       during my History report?

Who did you take to the prom?

Out come the old battered yearbooks.

Shared giggles at pictures

       and comments written

       so long ago.

Then the class memory machine

       holds forth.

Trivia becomes building blocks.

Questions and comments

       form a kaleidoscope

       of 35 years ago.

Each piece of the puzzle

       is soon in place.

The wonderful shared past

       is reconstructed.

What a happy past invented.

None of the pain of youth.

None of the doubts.

None of the teacher put-downs.

No memory of romances

       broken

Nor the telephone calls

       to friends for support.

No deaths of friends and family

Nor is this a place

       to remember parents.

Reunions are selective memories

        of the good old days

       when all was perfect

       and we were young.

For one day that is the world

       we will live in.

 

Doug Minnis May 19, 2010

 

Notes
This was writtne a few days after the rrunion of the Holmes Alternative Program of 35 years ago.Many of the alumni had not seen each other for 35 years.