Shame!

For Shame

For shame!

For shame!

I always thought I was too smart

         to be hooked on stereotypes

         developed by the popular media.

To top it off, my thoughtless behavior led to my lying.

Two evil deeds for the price of one.

That poor, wretched old lady did no more

         than ask me for money       

         to help pay for bus fare to Woodland.

Instead of saying an honest no,

         I lied and said I had no money.

I had money and I do give to charity.

Where did the thought that

         she would spend it on drugs

         or booze come from?

Was it her disheveled appearance?

Was it her obesity and unattractive appearance?

Was it the color of her skin?

Or was it her poorly fitting and soiled clothing?

Why was it so easy to say that I had no money?

In retrospect she clearly needed bus fare. 

Sitting in my book-lined study

          writing a check to the Food Bank

           or Loaves and Fishes,

           I never have to face the recipient.

My study-based charity efforts are safe and clean

        with no pictures of the poor on the wall.

My sterile contact with poverty

          is a computer-generated checks

         signed with a feeling of a deed well done.

Giving is satisfying 

         and I carry around gold-colored dollar coins

         as added tips to waitresses in restaurants.

My stereotype for them is

         that they are college students       

        working their way through school.

In all the years of this extra tipping

         and of giving to charity,

         never once did I wonder

         if the money was going for

         drugs or booze.

I have been had by the silent,

        seeping evil of  common perceptions.

This is not good common sense.

For shame this time!

Never again will I not see through

         this convenient blind spot.

Doug Minnis

November 13, 2009