Lessons Learned While Becoming an Equestrian

Written
2009

 One of the richest things

         about becoming a fine horseman

         is what it teaches you about  becoming a man.

Riding a mount well

         is like living your life well.

Both horse and your life

         are yours to control.

Sit easy in your saddle

         and in your life.

Go with the gait in both.

Gentle with the reins

         and knees.

Develop close communication that

         collects the vital pulse of horse and life.

Don't fight what you can direct.

And always be in control,

         even when frightened and  unsure.

Steady is for your horse

         and all the people in your life.

Study carefully the care and feeding

         of your life,

         just as you do for your horse.

Choose an apple over sugar,

         even though for the moment

         sweet sounds very good.

Pet and curry your horse

         to make the coat shine,

         and do the same for your life.

Polish your boots

         and trim her hooves when she is shod.

There is lots of stable cleaning for a horse,

         and so it is with life.

Roll with it, because that is what a man does for his horse

         and his life.

Look the part of a horseman.

When you clean the stable,

         dress for it.

But when you ride,

         change to look the part

         of a proud rider

         instead of a stable hand.

When you ride well,

          you and your mount become one.

When you live right,

         you and your life blend seamlessly.

And never make your horse look silly,

       keep her away from locoweed.

And if you have to brand her,

         do it where it does not show.

If you do all this,

         life's roughest trots

         will be the gait of a

          Tennessee walking-horse.

 

Doug Minnis

For Jackson Perkins

September 6, 2009

 

 

 

Notes
Written before Jackson's birth because the idea came and ideas do escape old men. His mother is and has been a fine equestrian. It was fun to write and the ideas came into my head as I thought about the idea of a young man learning to ride a horse